The problem is not insecurities, the problem is respect. Respect for yourself. Respecting your own blessings. If you’ve been blessed with at least one loyal person in this fucked up world, you should do the best you can to keep them. People promise loyalty everyday but what that really means is they’ll be there when it’s convenient. They’ll do just enough to stay in a good place until it doesn’t suit them anymore. I’ve had these people in my life for as long as I can remember. And to be totally honest I’ve been that person once or twice before. But I’ve learned from what that brings. Most people never care enough about what they do to critic themselves. But we all know that’s not how it works. Even if they claim to love you. Love comes from ones respect for another and for themselves. Without respect for yourself and others do claim to love or be in love with shit.